Friday, October 7, 2016

I know the answer


Some will see the cup half full and others the glass half empty. I must be honest I hate staying in but the girls loved it. Let me explain. Once again they paved cobblestones were slippery and wet. The rain started just after 11am and have not stopped even as I write these words. Our plan was to venture to Sigulda and visit Tarzan Land this weekend but the rains have put a kibosh to those plans. But back to today. Outside of 60 minutes, we spent the entire day indoors. However, that 60 minutes was everything a daddy could want.  Sheri want to get in a run, as she did not get one in this morning before the girls got up. So, she asked me if I would take the girls out for a little while. Gee…..let me think about that………OKAY!  

The girls ate pretty healthy yesterday so today they want pankucus.  We visited a small, family owned pankusus house that we found last year. All the serve is different kind of pancakes in a buffet style line. Nata feasted on crepes while Sanija had a crepe, banana pancukus and I think an apple pankukus.  You will notice I spelled Pancu….pank….pancakes different every time. At some point I will learn to spell the word correctly.

Afterwards, it was fun time. Sanija wanted to go back to the 5D movie that we have seen….oh, maybe once or twice….or 38 times. I keep forgetting the exact number. Anyhow, as we walked in the cashier said, ‘you guys are my most loyal customers. I had to chuckle but I told her, “anything for my girls”.

We didn’t watch one but three 5D movies this time. In fact, they put on a special one just for us…being loyal customers.   As soon as the third one ended, Nata replied, “Lets go again”. But there are other days and we are still for a few more weeks.

On the way home, Sanija asked if we could stop off at the ring store. We have been there several times before and she really, really wanted this special ring.  Being with Daddy she knew (I think) I wouldn’t say “no” to my baby…..so I bought it. In my defense, All of us had looked at this ring before and together we told Sanija we would get it for her if she thought about it and still wanted it a few days later. Well, she thought about it!

At that same store they have some nesting dolls. Now, my cousin Sandy asked us to pick one up for her. Nata said she had found the perfect ones and wanted to buy them right there, right now. Instead, I took photos of the dolls and will be posting those photos on FB, real soon. Just to give you a heads up. I think we should buy the traditional Russian dolls while Nata wants to get the one with cartoon characters on them. Hmmmm……I think that might be a tough call. In Nata’s defense, two of the dolls did have Disney characters on them. We will let her decide.

I love spending time with my girls and cherish every moment with them.

When we got back they both still had school work to do and art projects to master. Almost every day, the girls put on music and either sing or dance or sing and dance around the apartment. I would post those video but the girls make me promise not to, especially after the great “I’m a gummy bear” incidence.

Before bedtime it was family game night. As always, I set the girls up for winning. For those who know me, you know I’m competitive but when it comes to my girls……well let’s just say they are my number 1’s.  We often race to the front door, a corner, a________(fill in the blank) and somehow the girls always win. It’s close but they always just inch me out somehow.

One of my favorite thing to watch is how Nata adores Sheri. Oh my gosh, does this little girl love her or what! Rhetorical question!  If mommy sits on the couch, Nata will snuggle up and wrap their arms together. If possible, she will lay her head on her lap….if possible she will want to be picked up by her……if possible she will _____________ (fill in the blank),  She will stare at Sheri and study everything she does. She wants to be part of anything that mommy does. 

Sometimes you can’t see the forest through the trees, as my dad would say. Tonight, I spoke with Sheri about my observation and Sheri had a rather large grin on her face. I’m not sure she is aware of the attention, love and affection this cute and adorable girl needs and wants. No, I’m NOT JEALOUS! I’m not, I’m not, I’m not! 


Both Sheri and I are starting to think, “She gets it”. She understands that we will be her forever parents. She told Sheri that she (meaning mommy), will be the last mommy she ever has!  If that doesn’t bring tears to your eyes, nothing will.  We are the family that she has been longing for, dream of since she realized that she was a foster kid. The love she shows us is such a pure, innocent love that it makes it impossible to see it any other way.  This is my baby girl. From the moment she was born she was ours. There is no doubt in my mind about that. Both girls were put in that foster house together for a reason and holding both of them in my arms, I know the answer. 

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